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ThrowRASexTalk_ OP t1_j2er5in wrote

Reply to comment by quickcalamity in [33M][34F] How do I tell my gf that I am unhappy with our sex life? by ThrowRASexTalk_

I want to talk to her first. I just need to know the right approach for it.

I'm sure there's no abuse or trauma.

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quickcalamity t1_j2esnbh wrote

People on this sub always ask, “how do I tell them?” “How do I say…?” These sorts of conversations are never easy, but you have to say the words. “Hey, we’ve been together X amount of years. I love you and desire you but I’m not feeling that in return. If things don’t change, I’ll have to rethink the relationship.” There might be a guy out there for her , but you’re not him.

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ThrowRASexTalk_ OP t1_j2euad3 wrote

Thanks for the template. I think I can word it around that.

> There might be a guy out there for her , but you’re not him.

If it feels like we can't move past this, so be it. But I want to try all options first. I'm very invested in her and she feels the same way.

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