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Transmutagen t1_j2dtruf wrote

Yes. Whether she’s doing it deliberately or whether it’s some subconscious mechanism - it is manipulative. Another word I would use here is “abusive”.

You need to have a frank discussion with her about this behavior. It is clearly not healthy for you. If you can’t resolve this issue between the two of you in a manner that leads to her not abusing you it would be a good idea to seek professional assistance with a therapist - jointly and individually.

You deserve better.

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throwRAhazza590 OP t1_j2exr65 wrote

She won't hear discussion. She will deny and get hostile, as is tradition.

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Transmutagen t1_j2f7ljo wrote

Oof. That right there is a big red flag. I stand by my previous statement - you deserve better.

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