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trilliumsummer t1_j2f6hme wrote

Ask your gf her thoughts. Bring up that your sister will be in your life and you won’t cut her out for bigots. How does she see the future going?

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Hazardous_Youth t1_j2fj4c7 wrote

She put boundaries down about that stuff, but honestly we’re both shocked and still unsure what to do long term.

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trilliumsummer t1_j2fkmxv wrote

Have the boundaries been tested? Push back from her parents? I think when that happens that might be enlightening.

Families don’t always have to merge, but that won’t be possible unless your gf is ok keeping them at arms length.

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