Submitted by Plane_Conversation89 t3_1004vqo in relationship_advice
So I got cheated on a while back at 21 and now I'm a 23 year old male used two year to just focus on me and finishing barber school. So I feel like I'm ready but every girl I talk to i feel like they are gonna be cheaters and don't text them back but now I have this really cute girl texting me and she wants to call and do all this and we are supposed to meet tomorrow but I feel like not texting her back as well cause I'm not wanting to feel that pain I felt long ago! She has told me that she ain't texting anyone else but she told me she has guy friends and that she slept with one a long while back and I'm truly getting vibes like this from the other girls! Should I still keep trying since its just the talking stage of things or should I just keep going on the search?
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