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barukspinoza t1_j2fkc2p wrote

Hell no, not worth it. Honestly people joke abt Reddit saying break up over nothing but like. Y’all haven’t been together that long, you aren’t married, and you don’t have kids. Trustworthiness CAN be developed, but that’s the key word there. Do you want to find out after a decade plus a couple kids that he hasn’t actually become trust worthy?

You are young and there are good partners out there that don’t do this.

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bingbongbingbonggg OP t1_j2fkojh wrote

Right. I think this is really hard for me because he’s been the perfect partner in other capacities and I love him. That’s why I’m trying to get an outsider perspective to see past the rose tinted glasses

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barukspinoza t1_j2flyht wrote

That is always so hard and I totally get wanting a neutral opinion on it. But of all the perfectness, if you cannot trust your partner 100% there’s always going to be that seed of doubt/suspicion that is going to erode any good foundation that has been set.

Everyone is different and has different priorities, but if I were in another relationship and anything happened that questioned if I could trust my partner or not it’s game over.

Because you can find someone just as perfect that you can trust.

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