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Awkward-Secret4694 OP t1_j2fmddc wrote

Im the terrible person? The unmarried one! The one who was basically used for a good time behind his wife and kids back.

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Hal_Jordan55 t1_j2fn7tt wrote

Don't pretend to be a victim. You were a willing participant, not sure how you expected this to end.

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Awkward-Secret4694 OP t1_j2fodmz wrote

I am a victim. I dont get how i am not. He was the one that was married not me. Yes, I shouldnt have "blackmailed" him, but I didnt want to let him go. He was my everything. He told everyone about the affair, so I have no way of getting back with him or have no leverage and nows acting like i never existed. Its harsh.

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Hal_Jordan55 t1_j2fouu7 wrote

In what way were you a victim? You willingly slept with someone, and he dumped you. It happens to plenty of people, most of them don't play victim.

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