[27M][26F] I have a problem understanding her

Submitted by ThrowRAPractical t3_zzyv8c in relationship_advice

So today we were watching a movie and at one point I passed a comment about the movie characters and my girlfriend doesn't agree with me buy saying I'm stupid and I should shut up. This is in the presence of my mother. I told her "why am I always the stupid one" and not you. And left it at that. She told me to shut up and stop trying to "show off" and be rude towards her. I told her I will say whatever I want just like she does. She got dressed and left for work completely disregard the fact that I was supposed to drive her to work and visit her again during the countdown. Now I have no car, feel hurt and alone because the anger she shows is something I can't believe. She will now ignore me and expect me to chase her and make amends. If I take too long she wil say I don't care and block me even further. She will disregard tomorrow s family event or shows up and makes it obvious she's not talking to me. She wants to be herself around me. Shout at me and yell and insult but when I do it it's wrong. I was never like this but after years of being insulted I'm starting to talk back but now I'm the bad guy. I'm confused with this woman. I feel terrible. New years eve alone and she won't care.

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kungfuchelsea t1_j2eeo6b wrote

Sounds like a shitty abusive girlfriend. Break it off and find someone who is kind to you.

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GroundbreakingBet281 t1_j2eetav wrote

Yea you should break up with her, she sounds like a piece of shit. She treats you like crap and then treats you worse when you try and stand up for yourself, what about this situation is really good? What about this relationship makes it worth putting up with this stuff?

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