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lynxtosg03 t1_j2f6q4t wrote

I think the first step is to spend more time with her doing anything. When she's opened up more to you then bring up the subject privately and let them know how it hurt you. I'm sure your niece is upset and embarrassed as well. She's young, and probably needs to sort herself a bit on this issue. Keep being there for them as best you can.

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Complete-Lettuce-941 OP t1_j2fi0ih wrote

Thank you, I agree that she is embarrassed and I do want to give her some room. I appreciate the advice on spending time with her and being there for her and it makes sense because this isn’t about punishment (ok the inheritance part is but I can’t let her have the assets my immigrant grandparents left for me). Again, Thank you.

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