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DM_ME_YOUR_PET_PICSS t1_j6p97kx wrote

Reply to comment by Sea_Duty182 in Im worried m32 my fiance f31 fancy her work colleague by [deleted]

To me, it sounds like your GF is a liar, not a cheater.

I once had a friend that fabricated a lot of stuff just to have something to talk about, I knew that a lot of what he said was BS but he was still fun to hang out with and the lies were harmless.

That being said, idk why your GF is making things up. You would have to ask her.

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Sea_Duty182 t1_j6pbyqy wrote

I don't know how to approach it, and the fact I almost sensed something was different beforehand and noticed the change in behaviour says there is something more to it.

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DM_ME_YOUR_PET_PICSS t1_j6pcx9b wrote

Well you already snooped, but you can’t really bring anything up without admitting that.

Might just have to say something like “hey _____, I went through your phone and noticed how you were talking to _____. Is there a reason your telling her fake things?”

Could backfire massively if she takes this as an invasion of privacy, which it was, and try to say that you shouldn’t know that stuff anyway, you shouldn’t. But there is basically 0 other way to find out unless you talk to the other women.

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Sea_Duty182 t1_j6pep6o wrote

Yeah I get what your saying. I feel shitty for looking because I do trust her. Maybe I'm insecure I don't know:(

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