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SheBeeMe t1_j6pex7n wrote

Reply to comment by Sea_Duty182 in Im worried m32 my fiance f31 fancy her work colleague by [deleted]

People sometimes exaggerate to their friends to make themselves seem more interesting. Who knows why she said that?

You on the other hand, seem to be the one with the biggest issue. You seem to lack self awareness, are inappropriately invasive of her space, and almost seem controlling.

She's allowed to talk to her friends. That doesn't give you the right to accuse her of cheating. You are behaving irrationally and unreasonably.

So, she told a lie about the two of you moving. Big deal. Instead of accusing her of cheating, own your behavior and tell her that you've been spying on her.

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Sea_Duty182 t1_j6pfmhk wrote

I can assure you I am none of the above. We have a very open relationship where we often do our own things so please don't make assumptions.
It is a big deal to me because I don't get why she'd make up stuff. I haven't gone into detail, but the depth of the fake stories is what bothers me. Not just a passing comment but it goes on and on..

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SheBeeMe t1_j6pjrkb wrote

You seem to be missing the point. You have been spying on her. If you don't like what you found, then you need to come clean about your behavior and tell her what you saw.

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