There was another post that I read just now and the gal was saying that her boyfriend convinced her to take of the condom and he finished inside of her and everyone is reading her the riot act about how awful it was. You should check it out. Like you, she seemed to not be freaking out enough about this bullshit. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/10pjhdy/my_f19_new_bf_m23_has_an_std/

Just swap out the gender and relationship details and pay attention to how selfish and fucked up this is.