Submitted by Carson_Frost t3_10ps9w3 in relationship_advice
Hi I'm 19 and am currently best friends with a girl (also 19) who means the world to me. I've know this woman for a few months now and she's my absolute 10/10 and she loves how well we click and absolutely adores how I treat her and listen to her, only problem is she's said that she isn't and won't be romantically involved with me ever, I match everything she wants, needs, and desires but I'm not older like she would want. She's currently in a seemingly endless loop with a guy she loves, but isn't ready to move on with her in the next step, she's in pieces right now and I've been there every single step of the way helping with what I'm allowed and can. She knows I love her until the end of life but keeps bringing up the fact that we will NEVER be in a relationship with one another, which is hard to believe is true when your wrapped up and emotionally dealing with another guy who doesn't feel the same. My question is is it possible for her to ever develop feelings for me and give me a chance? If so what are some things I could do during and after her on and off process that could create a bond between us?
Edit: I won't get to tell everybody but any information given is appreciated greatly, regardless if it's agreeable or not.
ChocolateChouxCream t1_j6m4ntq wrote
To be frank - no means no. Thinking anything else makes you creepy. If you have feelings for her and you can't be friends with her, then don't be. You're not obligated to