Carson_Frost OP t1_j6m60kl wrote on January 31, 2023 at 8:37 AM

Reply to comment by ChocolateChouxCream in Me (M19) and my best friend/crush (F19) are dealing with an unrequited love by Carson_Frost

Agreed but, I've lived through horrible things and am numb at this point, my self esteem died years ago along with my father and girlfriend.

ChocolateChouxCream t1_j6m63a1 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 8:38 AM

I'm so sorry to hear that happened. My condolences.

Please get yourself help with therapy rather than resign yourself to a life of no self worth. You can be someone's first choice too.

Carson_Frost OP t1_j6m69gy wrote on January 31, 2023 at 8:41 AM

I've already aligned myself being in my last semester of my first year of college and being in the air force I couldn't be more aligned and set on a straight path I'm just trying to aquire my crush along the way, and thank you once again.

ChocolateChouxCream t1_j6m6ik8 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 8:45 AM

Also keep in my mind what your lack of self esteem would do to a partner even if she agreed to be with you. It doesn't make for a healthy relationship.

Carson_Frost OP t1_j6m6tpf wrote on January 31, 2023 at 8:49 AM

As a very planned an intricate individual, I have kept that in mind, but it's funny because she has given me an unreal amount of self esteem via advice and by just existing. My parents don't understand how she gets me to smile so much by just existing in the room.