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According-Witness-41 t1_j6n0neh wrote

Reply to comment by BobaCatz in My (22M) girlfriend (22F) lied about deleting the socials of a guy who hit on her by [deleted]

I never demanded it, she mentioned that she deleted it when I told her I was uncomfortable with it

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BobaCatz t1_j6n0wpo wrote

And why be uncomfortable with it unless you don’t trust her to be faithful? You’re insecure and she lied to placate you.

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According-Witness-41 t1_j6n1bc4 wrote

Because he was hitting on her, we’re in a long distance relationship & she has cheated on an ex in the past. Yeah, I am insecure about this, but why lie to me rather than just remove someone?

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BobaCatz t1_j6n2111 wrote

Yikes. You’re in a long distance relationship with a woman who you don’t trust and who doesn’t respect you enough to tell the truth 🚩

I don’t blame you for not trusting her, but these are not the foundations of a healthy relationship

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According-Witness-41 t1_j6n2dom wrote

I think that’s the bare truth of it. I understand how important trust is, but when stuff like this happens it goes all out of the window so to speak. I can’t speak on why she’s done that but whatever reason it is isn’t a good one for me

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BobaCatz t1_j6n3uyw wrote

Run for your life. Don’t invest any more of yourself into whatever this arrangement is

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Faintkay t1_j6n1jvi wrote

The fact is she lied to him in the first place. Feeling weird about your gf saying she did one thing and then finding out she lied is going to bring up questions. He didn’t question their relationship until she lied about this.

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BobaCatz t1_j6n28jp wrote

She did him a favor. He should move tf on

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