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polishmuffinz OP t1_j6m7msj wrote

Yeah I know I need help. I just feel like I don’t even want to talk to him when I get up in the morning. I feel sick. I don’t want to shame him but I feel like he doesn’t understand or cares to.

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ShittyBollox t1_j6m831e wrote

Then take him with you, if he’ll go. A professional will be able to help you communicate what’s going on in a constructive way and will be able to advise him on how to work with you.

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polishmuffinz OP t1_j6m8efy wrote

You don’t think I’m crazy? I was expecting doubt and break up messages bc of our age and all. I’m really surprised and honestly refreshed to hear this. I’ve never felt this way about someone. And I know the whole cliche and puppy love trope. The amount of times we should’ve broke up knowing we have ZERO strings attached and no obligation to, yet actively choosing to prevail is beyond love. Before I hear that’s toxic etc. we’re human beings who love each other and are honestly just trying to make it in this world together. Outside things usually what cause our tifs. I also know that my PTSD and trauma isn’t fair to either one of us. Often times people would rather just discard me and the relationship. I do believe this is special. Not only bc he treats me like a human being but bc of the passion and commitment to each other.

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ShittyBollox t1_j6mal79 wrote

No I don’t think you’re crazy or that you should break up. Therapy helps. Trust me.

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