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Submitted by [deleted] t3_10p9mfa in relationship_advice
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Lol, he lost his job, starting to work again come this March and you expect a vacation? He should leave you now. Nothing is worse than losing your job…
I don’t expect a vacation, I just want him to have more money for groceries and not put me in the spot of paying last minute after his card gets declined multiple times. I feel like I’m paying the price of the pretty lavish lifestyle he had with his ex.
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Have a discussion with him about how he can’t live the same lifestyle as before, but don’t shame him for not having money. He’s not a deadbeat; it sounds like he’s trying to hustle to get his finances back.
The ex thing is also kind of meh. I would assume that an adult in the dating pool has exes.
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You are jealous, though, because your bf clearly treated his ex with consideration that he isn't extending to you? You know, you could just....decline...to stop paying for him when he's low on funds. Right?
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