Thank you. I also told him that his actions tell me what he thinks about our relationship. I am aware that I was pushing him maybe too much, to get a job and try to move out, but if he wants a life with me like he says he does, he should do it. My family who has less money then his is ready to help us financialy and get a loan for the visa, and I just feel embarrassed how inmature he is acting about that.