Submitted by [deleted] t3_10q8zes in relationship_advice
yowen2000 t1_j6olvf3 wrote
Reply to comment by SleepFlower80 in I (22F) think my boyfriend (22M) is possibly cheating? by [deleted]
Early on in a relationship I agree with you, but at some point you have to be comfortable enough with each other to let your s/o briefly use your device.
SleepFlower80 t1_j6om3y2 wrote
No, you don’t. There’s absolutely no reason for any partner to ever have my passcodes. I was with my ex for 12 years and neither of us had access to the others’s devices, nor did we ever ask.
yowen2000 t1_j6orobi wrote
I let my girlfriend play games on my phone, use it to take pictures and a few other things in situations where her phone isn't handy. She does the same for me. We trust each other, and neither of us uses it as an opportunity to go digging through texts, browser history or anything else.
At some point saying "no" to "can I use your phone to do <insert innocuous task>" get's weird.
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