jkjwysa t1_j6kwu3v wrote on January 31, 2023 at 1:25 AM

I don't know about the other stuff but I find it strange you're fixating on what sounds like a black bra and panties. I wouldn't call that lingerie even if it was lacey.

Regardless of everything, it sounds like you no longer have any trust in your relationship. Cheating or not, you have a problem.

[deleted] OP t1_j6liz7q wrote on January 31, 2023 at 4:16 AM

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grissy t1_j6lurfc wrote on January 31, 2023 at 6:13 AM

You might need to, because if they're a regular black bra and panties that just happen to match then you may be overreacting. If they're some Frederick's of Hollywood number then situation is probably exactly what it looks like.