Submitted by queenbee_2603 t3_10phqsq in relationship_advice
Should we break up or work on it?
Hi I am a 19F dating a 18M, I had met him during a graduation party last year and we hit it off pretty good. Although I was already in a relationship I couldn’t pursue it any further. But I could never get him out of my head, I had fallen in love with him way too hard. We always wanted to see each other all the time and we slowly became very physical with eachother. So I ended things with my relationship because 1 he was very toxic and 2 I didn’t love him like he loved me and I wanted him to find someone that was better for him. Okay fast forward to now, my boyfriend lives with me in my apartment, since we started dating in late July, he was only suppose to stay for a couple weeks which turned to a couple months. I don’t know how to tell him I want my space back. On top of that he won’t have sex with me anymore let alone hug or kiss me. He makes me feel disgusted with myself by him calling my friends hot or even saying he has to reject so many girls because he’s in a relationship. But if he wasn’t he would have dated them. I love him so much that if I even try to talk to him about any of this he gets mad and makes fun of me and I just can’t handle it. I don’t know what to do and everyone is telling me to break up with him but I can’t.. I wanna fix our relationship
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