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TattooPuddle t1_j6iely2 wrote

What sort of advice are you wanting exactly?

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Somerandomguy1995 t1_j6ierf2 wrote

What can I do to make a bigger difference in our relationship? Am I being a bad person?? What can I do better in regards to this?

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TattooPuddle t1_j6iextl wrote

Ask your partner. He knows what he wants better than some randoms on the internet.

But it doesn't sound like he's asked for anything else. You need to chill.

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Somerandomguy1995 t1_j6if7or wrote

Ok I will again. He said he wants nothing in particular. But I dont really get that

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TattooPuddle t1_j6ifjrx wrote

You don't have to "get it". You just have to listen to your partner. He knows what he wants better than you do.

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Somerandomguy1995 t1_j6ifpaf wrote

You might be right I think. Ill have to engrain that way of thinking into myself. Sorry 😅

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Somerandomguy1995 t1_j6ies92 wrote

What more can I bring to the table

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ImAJerk420 t1_j6if5d3 wrote

Maybe try getting a job?

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Somerandomguy1995 t1_j6iffwv wrote

Yes I would love one! Ive been looking for remote ones. They are really hard to find. Im like desperate at this point I started messaging consultants on social media 😅. If anyone has any tips on getting a remote job that would be really nice or is hiring!!

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Kooky_Independent656 t1_j6if9dk wrote

Don't listen to his mother...she has nothing to do with your relationship. Us women are worth it and sometimes we want something nice and expensive and it's ok ...hope he gets the Uggs for you and his mother stays out of your business.

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Somerandomguy1995 t1_j6iftfs wrote

Shes normally pretty cool! She helped me look for remote jobs :)

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Kooky_Independent656 t1_j6ig795 wrote

I'm glad she is...if your boyfriend wants to get you a nice gift then let him and don't feel guilty. One day you'll be able to get him a nice gift but for now enjoy your birthday.

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