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What sort of advice are you wanting exactly?

What can I do to make a bigger difference in our relationship? Am I being a bad person?? What can I do better in regards to this?

What more can I bring to the table

Ask your partner. He knows what he wants better than some randoms on the internet.

But it doesn't sound like he's asked for anything else. You need to chill.

Maybe try getting a job?

Ok I will again. He said he wants nothing in particular. But I dont really get that

Don't listen to his mother...she has nothing to do with your relationship. Us women are worth it and sometimes we want something nice and expensive and it's ok ...hope he gets the Uggs for you and his mother stays out of your business.

Yes I would love one! Ive been looking for remote ones. They are really hard to find. Im like desperate at this point I started messaging consultants on social media 😅. If anyone has any tips on getting a remote job that would be really nice or is hiring!!

You don't have to "get it". You just have to listen to your partner. He knows what he wants better than you do.

You might be right I think. Ill have to engrain that way of thinking into myself. Sorry 😅

Shes normally pretty cool! She helped me look for remote jobs :)

I'm glad she is...if your boyfriend wants to get you a nice gift then let him and don't feel guilty. One day you'll be able to get him a nice gift but for now enjoy your birthday.

Yes, I guess it is in return for custom video game props I got him which I completely forgot about until now lmao

Well there you go