Agree. It sounds like OP's bf wants to chat up hot women and relive his single days, using wingman status as an excuse for the ego boost. He may have zero intentions of cheating but putting himself in those kinds of situations is using questionable judgment. (I would argue lots of people don't intend to cheat but their bad choices make it easier.) And lying about it, deleting texts? He better grovel like hell and put in the work in required to regain lost trust. OP, I'd be super hurt and I think you're honestly being super chill (maybe too chill.) What if the situations were reversed and you planned to hang out with a bunch of hot guys? Bet he wouldn't be ok with it