megtato t1_j6ozu3e wrote on January 31, 2023 at 9:46 PM

Reply to comment by nightowl2023 in My (f23) Fiancée (m26) wants to experiment with men. by [deleted]

That’s my reasoning behind not being okay with letting him experiment. Because if he prefers sex with men, I’d be heartbroken. If he doesn’t like it, I’d still be heartbroken that it even happened.

makeshiftballer t1_j6p2my7 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 10:03 PM

You should be heartbroken that he wants to cheat on you.

nightowl2023 t1_j6p1myj wrote on January 31, 2023 at 9:57 PM

The actual problem here is the lack of commitment.

For example, I physically "prefer" women that don't have the body type of my wife and I always have. But that doesn't make it okay to invalidate the commitments I made to her and emphasize my fantasies over her.

Because then I'm no longer happy with the person that I have.

[deleted] OP t1_j6p2vx7 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 10:05 PM

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