[deleted] OP t1_j6gfqr3 wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:28 AM

Reply to comment by Chaoticgood790 in I feel like I (F 35) was manipulated by this man (M 47) for over a year, and now I’m his back up plan by [deleted]

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Chaoticgood790 t1_j6gidbc wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:47 AM

Just remind yourself it’s not real. Or it’s real for that moment and then those moments pass. He’s interested while in between others. That’s not long term.

I wouldn’t try to understand it. Just try to understand how it makes you feel

Jmm1272 t1_j6goe8v wrote on January 30, 2023 at 4:37 AM

If he was interested he would not have pushed you away. You have to look at his actions and not his words