You're right. It's not going to go anywhere since he's bringing up topics that you said you weren't currently comfortable with. He's disregarding your boundaries and that is a sure way to be a predatory partner. A relationship with him would suck. Don't waste your time.

If you already feel like it’s not going anywhere why are you wasting your time and his time? It’s obvious what he wants and it’s not what you want.

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Your wanting a relationship he’s wanting sex only.

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The biggest problem here is the lack of communication. If you want something real, you should have (and should) tell him exactly that. You said you started talking to the guy over social media, but what, are you just hoping for the best? That's not how relationships work. You need to use your words.

So now, he's told you exactly what he wants and what this is. That doesn't make him a bad person. He's being completely honest about what he wants. You said no to a movie and sex, but nothing else. It's like you're expecting that declining that will make him "wake up" and ask you out on a date and want a relationship.

You can only know where this is going if you ask. Stop guessing. Good luck.

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If he wants sex this early then that's what he wants. Nothing you say will make him stop wanting it. My BF and I didn't do the deed till we were together about seven months. Maybe that's extreme to some people but I am so happy we waited and took things slow. It is not too late to cut your losses and find someone who wants the same things you do.

Is it really so crazy to be all "Netflix and chill?" From him after three weeks of dancing around it? He probably thought it was time to make a move. At the very least I don't thinks it's that far out of left field. As for dating, how are you not dating after all this time and all the chats? In any event its pretty clear that you aren't interested. He will most likely give up soon if you don't have a straightforward conversation about what yall are doing.