RoosterPorn t1_j6pa7uv wrote on January 31, 2023 at 10:53 PM

Go with your crush. I don’t think you owe the other person anything.

YuutaIgarashi t1_j6paewd wrote on January 31, 2023 at 10:54 PM

It's fine to just say no to the other person? I just don't want to make him sad...

RoosterPorn t1_j6pasjj wrote on January 31, 2023 at 10:56 PM

I think you have a reasonable excuse. If he cared about you he’d want you to be happy with your crush on Valentine’s Day.

YuutaIgarashi t1_j6pb198 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 10:58 PM

I understand, thank you

cinnamonduck t1_j6pi4pd wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:46 PM

Absolutely you can say no! Girl, it is not your job to make men feel better or protect their feelings. What about what you want? Put yourself first. Never say yes to a date or anything else just because someone wants it and you don’t want to hurt their feelings. That’s not fair to you. As women were conditioned to cater to everyone’s needs above our own, especially mens. I’m here to tell you to stop doing this, and give you permission to put your needs and wants first.