Submitted by Careful_Woodpecker11 t3_10qeeeg in relationship_advice
Hello all , I’ve been with my fiancé for 7 years & we have a toddler who 18month. I’m 26 she’s 25. She has 2 WFH jobs & takes care of the baby. She is basically with him 24/7. I work hybrid 3 days in office the rest WFM. The days I’m home I try my best to be with him so she can breath the days i’m in office I come home & do the same. The baby doesn’t play with toy for to long he gets bored & move on. I’ve tired all type of toys remote cars, drawing, toy for brain stimulation but nothing seem to keep his interest he would rather run around & do his own thing. When we ignore him & try to watch a show together he starts to cry wanting attention. This really annoys her & sometimes cries & shut down.
I’ve been feeling a bit distant from them both I feel like I can’t entertain them & more importantly I can’t keep the baby from jumping on mom.. mom is tired & want to relax. It’s hard for us to be intimate as the baby sleeps with us even tho he has his own room. I’ve notice this might be taking a toll on our relationship as I find myself wanting to do other things & leave them in the other room..
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