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Valuable_Zucchini_97 OP t1_j6o6ayx wrote

I think you hit the nail on the head with me feeling like he fell in love with the wrong person. So when he said he wanted to be with me and divorce her, I believed him. Well they didn't get divorced for another 2 years. And I stuck around like am idiot. Because he made me believe that we were meant to be together. So why am I fighting for this? I guess because I truly believed him when he gave me his reasons for cheating, when I told me I was all he wanted. If I could go back I would change a lot because I didn't realize how much I was being used. But then I use the excuse that it was the situations fault not his fault which is why I stuck around. I appreciate you taking the time to respond. I know be isn't the person he pretends to be. It's just hard excepting that.

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Forsaken_Woodpecker1 t1_j6p1e7i wrote

You're gong to be fine, just don't forget the way you feel right now. He's going to try to convince you to stay, that things will be different, he's learned, blah blah blah. You know that you're better off without him.

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