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trishsf t1_j6obnpc wrote

You say that you absolutely trust her but you don’t. Other people’s intentions don’t matter if you trust her. Someone in a committed relationship doesn’t regularly communicate with an ex with the intention of seeing them at some point.

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DeadlyJelly18 t1_j6ot2ao wrote

I mean i did admit that the issue is in me, what I'm asking for is advice about how to communicate it without her feeling like i want to put restrictions on her

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trishsf t1_j6ov14f wrote

It’s actually fair to ask a partner that you are in a committed relationship with not to speak regularly with an ex or make plans to get together.

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