How do deal with a girl leaving you seen to get "back at you"

Submitted by Empty-Ad1458 t3_10q1m52 in relationship_advice

We've been dating for 3 months now and she has this pet peeve(can't think of the word) of leaving me on seen. For disliking something I do/say unintentionally or Intentionally. I'm not that type of person who begs or tries to "fix the issue", so she can talk to me. Though when I am wrong I do apologies for my mistake and if she still acts up. I'm good with not talking to her for weeks or even months. I'm usually a reserve person, so not talking to someone for months or a year is normal for me.

Should I change the way I think and act or what do I do?

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TattooPuddle t1_j6n9v7c wrote

>I'm good with not talking to her for weeks or even months

Sounds like you might as well be single.

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Empty-Ad1458 OP t1_j6nb94m wrote

She hasn't sent me over my tipping point yet lol... for me to be single.

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TattooPuddle t1_j6nbpe5 wrote

You're already happy not talking to her for a long period of time. You're better off single.

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Eberid t1_j6n95d8 wrote

I would dump her. If she wants to act like a child, she will be treated like a child. And I don't date children.

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Empty-Ad1458 OP t1_j6naktw wrote

Aside from her pet peeve (am I using this term correctly?) our time together is pretty enjoyable. Though when she acts up , she always gives in and wants to talk to me.

This has me thinking .... If I do experience this same exact issue with other females, is this a healthy way of treating the issue ?

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anonymoussalmon1 t1_j6nc7xk wrote

You know, it’s not a long relationship so maybe instead of trying to really get it to work out (because she seems like some work) you could end things? I mean, if you can go so much time without talking to her it’s an advantage for you. Just be honest of why you’re leaving.

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