Submitted by [deleted] t3_10qaxmi in relationship_advice
DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6paj4r wrote
Reply to comment by sleepingfox307 in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
We did end things on a good note. I said pretty much the same thing, I broke it off because I didn't feel like she prioritized me and was distancing herself from me. We wouldn't go on dates and when I was down visiting her she spent some of the time with some guys besides me on my last day at her university.
I said I want someone who is stoked to see me and chooses me first over some other guys. She said she felt the same way about breaking up for a while, we talked some more and she said hopefully when the time is right we will be back together and that there is a good chance we will get back together. We both said I love you, hugged, I gave her a last kiss, and left. I am just hurting now man, I know this isn't a good idea, but I just wish we didn't have to break up.
sleepingfox307 t1_j6pbaoh wrote
Sigh.
I know that pain all too well man, it sucks.
But it sounds like it was mutual and that you both have said all you need to say. Look I totally understand wanting to reach out that one last time, really I do... but it doesn't bring the closure you think it does, trust me.
One day at a time, bro, just keep going.
DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6pbibs wrote
Thanks man, I will keep my head up
sleepingfox307 t1_j6pbmgb wrote
That's the spirit
These things get easier as time goes by.
You'll be alright!
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