celestina047 t1_j6mgft2 wrote
You are hurting this much because you made up that whole idea of you two together. You kinda did is to yourself. You can't really know anything unless you try and since you two never been together you really can't know that she is the one and that you were meant to grow old. I've been through it all. It's different once you date and then once you move in together and sometimes you see some things that your partner does that you don't like.
My advice is to don't be close to them for a while. Focus on something else. Date. Learn more about nes people and if they like you back then imagine things cuz then you can do that together. It's better.
Dummkopf_Idiot OP t1_j6mhywe wrote
I can't date. I'm not the type of person who can just move on and date other people. I rarely am even interested in people anyway.
Plus, I don't know if you've noticed, but dating isn't really something I can just do.
angradillo t1_j6mmlr8 wrote
You can either continue to throw this pity party for yourself and suffer, or accept that something you only perceived as true never really existed in the first place. That is adulthood, welcome to it.
Do some hobbying, go for a walk, hit the gym, or read a new book. Then, get back into the game.
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