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Odd-Sock2486 OP t1_j6m5bw1 wrote

Reply to comment by Crystal010Rose in (25F) my (29M) boyfriend will break up with me if not moved in. by Odd-Sock2486

I will respond

Yes thank you,

  1. I agree

2.i definitely can not offord it, he lives in a 1 bedroom 1 bath apartment. They are asking $1,400 for a 12 year new lease. I still have my car payments, my health insurance, phone plan, etc. etc.

  1. Do I want to live with him right now? No, Do I want to live with him down the road? Yes, his current apartment is only fit for 1 person, not 2. He does have a full grown Sheppard that sleeps in a huge kennel (takes up alot of space) he never keeps food in his apartment, due to him working alot and never home. If I were to bring all my clothes/furniture/essentials, there would be no where to put any of my stuff. I've had a conversation with him about finding a apartment that is a bit bigger for his needs also, because he does have his family over alot and its super cramped, but ofc he can't offord anything else but where he is at now.

This is the first time I've heard him Brought up this altimatum. The first year we started dating the only serious conversation was that he wanted me to stay over more, and I did.

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