You are 23 years old is this the man and life you want to live?

You are both on completely different pages. Time to move on.

What happens when he says yes you and me and thats it, you get married in a year or two and he brings it up again? Do you think it will make it easier to leave after marriage/ A baby?

You dont stay in a relationship with a person when you want 2 completely different lives.

Again, at 23 you should be with someone who wants you.