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[deleted] OP t1_j6oz1w3 wrote

Reply to comment by ChocolateChouxCream in A close friend (26M) is cheating on his GF (25F) and I don’t know what to advise him. by [deleted]

To clarify, the other girl knows he is in a relationship.

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Texan2020katza t1_j6p0494 wrote

Someone needs to tell the girlfriend. If not him, you.

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[deleted] OP t1_j6p3dvn wrote

I know people on Reddit sometimes have a different opinion but honestly I don’t think it is my place to tell her. I do believe she deserves to know should he decide he wants to be with her (so she can decide, with all the information, if she wants to as well) while if he were to break up with her maybe it would be better for her to never know, i’m not sure.

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ChocolateChouxCream t1_j6p3yyx wrote

You could do it anonymously. I've been that girl before and I couldn't care less who told me. I just wish someone did.

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biteme717 t1_j6p48mf wrote

I personally would tell his GF and not talk to him. He's trying to justify his actions, and his best friend is a h*. There is only one person who is going to get hurt, and that's his girlfriend. NEITHER ONE OF THEM CARE about what they are doing. Do the right thing and tell his girlfriend. Or take her out for a girls night and let her catch him with his bimbo.

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