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RoosterPorn t1_j6p5149 wrote

Dating in your early twenties is a wild ride. Sometimes really good connections just drop with no explanation. Don’t think too much about it. Also, idk what your expectations are, but if I was 22 and someone didn’t date me because of my car I’d consider that a bullet dodged.

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benzodiazepine_ OP t1_j6p57np wrote

It's not bad tho. (Nissan Sentra 2013) I don't know about her expectations

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RoosterPorn t1_j6p5hwl wrote

Don’t stress over a girl that would take a pass on you because of a 2013 Nissan Sentra. Not saying she did, but I feel like that’s a good rule to live by. The only time a car itself becomes a red flag is if it’s destroyed or filled with trash.

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DM_ME_YOUR_PET_PICSS t1_j6p5ysb wrote

“Cheater” spay painted on the side?

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RoosterPorn t1_j6p6f0t wrote

Eh that’s a reason for concern.

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DM_ME_YOUR_PET_PICSS t1_j6p6l57 wrote

Fuck

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RoosterPorn t1_j6p6zjp wrote

Not necessarily a red flag though. Maybe your neighbors ex got the wrong car? Maybe your neighbors exes friend got the wrong car? Maybe a drunk person thought it’d be funny? Maybe you ghosted a girl after the first date and she turned out to be crazy? So many possibilities. But if I can’t see the floors of your car due to fast food garbage that points toward serious issues that don’t have a lot of reasonable excuses.

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benzodiazepine_ OP t1_j6p6l0v wrote

Lol. I think about this possibility because she posted a Insta story in a classy car after that day. Idk whose car is it tho

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DM_ME_YOUR_PET_PICSS t1_j6p7cxi wrote

Haha, If that’s really the reason you seriously did dodge a bullet.

Nice, good, caring people are not going to ghost someone over 2013 Nisan Sentra.

Good luck, friend!

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RoosterPorn t1_j6p7p1n wrote

There IS always the possibility that she’s still emotionally a child and has crazy expectations for what is important in life. I don’t know her though. My best advice is to just think of it as a learning experience and take whatever positive things you can from it. I’m 26, and the first 6 years of my twenties were all learning about what I do and don’t want in a relationship. I went through a lot of hard stuff, but I wouldn’t be where I was today if I hadn’t been through those events.

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