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Sufficient_Natural_7 t1_j6k8139 wrote

He’s taking advantage of you, it’s that plain and simple. And you know it.

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tushitouuu OP t1_j6k87dq wrote

i mean i dont really think so bc i am like giving out full on consent so i dont see how:/ explain

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Alarmed-Size3129 t1_j6k9hyx wrote

You are a 19 year old who doesn't know that him treating you like shit is something you're allowed to say no to. He picked you not because he thinks you're special (which you are!) but because he knows you won't stand up because you don't have the experience to tell that something is deeply, deeply off about all of this. Ditch the creep

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Sufficient_Natural_7 t1_j6kan94 wrote

Not sure where to begin, from your inexperience to the power dynamic he has. Most likely love bombing and other forms of manipulation, and for some reason he’s complaining a teenager (you) is acting like a teenager.

With age gaps there’s always a general rule; there’s a reason they go for younger and that’s because people their own age won’t deal/accept the bs they’re putting them through. People their age see through their bs.

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