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ThrowRAsadi4life OP t1_j6od19k wrote

Reply to comment by ruubduubins in Friends to lovers to disaster. 44 F 26M by ThrowRAsadi4life

I am the one who is 44

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ruubduubins t1_j6odi0x wrote

Ok same deal tho. He's not gonna marry you. You just keep throwing yourself at him and he's 26. He's gonna agree to easy sex with no strings attached.

He has made it clear there's no future for you two.

You should move on.

Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who can't decide if they actually want to be with you?

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ThrowRAsadi4life OP t1_j6oe8ov wrote

No, I don't want to be in a relationship like that. I will say, though, I am not always the one throwing myself at him as you put it.

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ruubduubins t1_j6oevzt wrote

It sounds like you've decided you want to be with him.

But he doesn't feel the same.

If he's giving you excuses for why he slept with you, he's not fully into you.

Edit. He said you made him uncomfortable at work so you left the job??? But still ok sleeping with you?

He's either using you for sex or completely embarrassed to be in a relationship woth you(likely someone your age)

Either is a huge red flag

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ThrowRAsadi4life OP t1_j6ofozh wrote

I have tried to move on more than once. When he hears. I have had a date with someone else he always shows back up in my life. I know I should get away from him, and I am trying again. I just am not doing well at getting over him.

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ruubduubins t1_j6ofvtv wrote

Well of course he shows up for you then.

Otherwise he would lose the easy convenient sex.

Block him on everything and don't let him back in.

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