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What did you say when he told you he’s normal? Did you say no you’re not, something is different?

He’s clearly still upset so you need to discuss it more

I did! He said that there's nothing wrong still. It's driving me crazy. He's giving me the silent treatment.

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Since what he says is meaningless, stop paying attention to it. What do you want to do about the fact that he's treating you like shit?

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When you say he’s treating you badly, what is he doing?

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I tried to talk to him, but he doesn't want to. He keeps saying he's fine and he's treating me normal. I wish we talk about it and solve the issue.

How immature. The silent treatment? Jeez he sounds like he is 5

He's giving me the silent treatment. I tried to talk normally and he just doesn't talk to me. If I'm at the bedroom, he leaves and spend time in another room so he doesn't have to be around me.

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What happened during the fight? Did you say anything very hurtful?

Could it be that he’s still processing his emotions after the fight? Sometimes a person needs a little more time to get over something, even if they accept an apology.

And he's telling you he isn't going to talk about it or acknowledge what's going on. So are you going to sit there and accept being treated like garbage?

What can I do? Because I really don't know what to do.

He was mad at me last night because I asked him to stop banging his leg on the bed because it was waking me up. Then he proceeded to sleep in the couch. I went after him and said that he he was behaving like a child and it was unnecessary, that he should come back to bed, but he didn't. And woke up like this.

Decide that you don't want a marriage like that, and make it clear to him that if that's what he wants, you will make other plans.

I suggest asking what you can do

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Why are you trying to fix it if he's the one with the problem? You should tell him that you're not OK with the silent treatment and if he wants to have a talk like a grown-up he should let you know. You don't have to cook for him and buy him stuff when he's acting like a child. You're just encouraging him.

I did and he said that there was nothing to do because he's not mad.

I thought about that too, I keep encouraging this kind of behavior by being like this. I'm someone desperate for everything be in good terms :(

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Maybe just try leaving him alone. Stop pushing him to talk about it. Some people need more time to process their feelings or to move on from negative emotions. You pushing him is probably making it worse.