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kevinrp07 t1_j6o9eam wrote

There are so many fallacies here, but did he actually get covid? Was he vaccinated? Is he overweight?

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sweetfish666 t1_j6ocidk wrote

He never tested. But I have the same symptoms he did. We’re vaxxed. No he’s not overweight.

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kevinrp07 t1_j6ocoy5 wrote

So what is the issue? Covid is fairly easy to beat. Idk why he is foolish paranoid.

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sweetfish666 t1_j6od51x wrote

That’s the point of the post. When he’s sick, there’s no such thing as isolation, but as soon as I get sick, isolation exists.

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kevinrp07 t1_j6odjf9 wrote

He’s doing a poor job of doing that since he’s living with you

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charley_warlzz t1_j6odmfp wrote

Eh, its very common to get nasty after effects or even ‘long covid’, even if youre totally healthy before hand and had a mild case. Stuff like that can be a roulette, so i get his anxiety- but.

The fact that he was sick first, and is now doing this other side of the bed thing… you guys should just isolate from each other as best you can until you start testing negative, and make sure hes testing too in case he catches it. Wiping down surfaces and stuff is great, but if youre still interacting/sleeping together/ etc hes not actually reducing the risk, hes just making you feel bad. Different bedrooms (or someone sleeps on the couch) until youre better is a more reasonable solution. He could also be concerned about having to take time off work and stuff.

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sugarmag13 t1_j6ob3xf wrote

If he was sick and didnt test himself then you should have removed yourself from contact with him. If you are saying you wouldnt have done that anyway, whats your point?

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sweetfish666 t1_j6ocnf5 wrote

We live in a one bedroom apartment? There’s not much isolation we can do.

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sugarmag13 t1_j6ocwrs wrote

Right and you said even if he had tested and was positive you would have done the exact same thing. So, I am confused as to what difference it made I'd he tested or not

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sweetfish666 t1_j6odkbn wrote

The problem is that when he’s sick, isolation doesn’t exist. As soon as I catch it, it’s a 180. I shouldn’t be touching everything, I should sanitize, we shouldn’t be in close contact. The hypocrisy is what I was pointing out.

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sugarmag13 t1_j6odtik wrote

Ok got it

Well, since he was just positive he should know that he is ok for a while

Does he act like a hypocrite in other areas as well?

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facinationstreet t1_j6odxvg wrote

You do know that COVID tests are free, right? And that you both exhibit high risk for spreading COVID through your behavior, right? You're upset that you bf is wiping down surfaces yet you went to work, he is doordashing and going grocery shopping. Sheesh. That behavior is what is actually kinda shitty

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sweetfish666 t1_j6oekyi wrote

So the policy at my work is until you test positive you can still go to work. Even if you’re living with someone who has covid. I always wear a mask though. That’s the other part that gets me. Is that knowing that my boyfriend got me sick, 1) he still doesn’t test himself and 2) he’s still going out. When I know dang well if someone was out with covid he’d throw a fit.

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