Fallout is one of my favorite bars. They have everything ranging from game nights, to drag shows (if you’re into Dragula, they regularly bring Dragula [and Ru Paul] contestants!), to more BDSM/kink-focused events (bondage, impact, voyeurism, leather, needle play, the list goes on…), to karaoke.

Most of their heavier BDSM/kink nights require membership BUT if you’re not a member and want to attend, you still can: just message them on Instagram or Fetlife ahead of time and request a one-night pass. Specify the event & date that you want to attend.

It’s definitely not elitist; but I do find it sorta hard to engage with a lot of the members there. That’s partially cause I’m very introverted. In general, everyone I’ve encountered there is very welcoming & kind.