Top-Experience-8874 t1_iub4xgf wrote
Reply to comment by Charlesinrichmond in The Night Thread by Asterion7
I think I need to take a class or something it would be easier for me to talk to ppl not in a bar setting
coconut_sorbet t1_iub6gbt wrote
Bar settings suck. But good job for getting out there anyway!
Top-Experience-8874 t1_iub7cgb wrote
Thanks 🙏🏽
SilverLengthy t1_iub6nur wrote
Definitely take it slow! I think it helps having a friend who pushes you to talk to others. But like the other person said, the only way it'll ever get easier is by talking to more people and learning how to return the vibe and emotion that they give you!
Top-Experience-8874 t1_iub9d14 wrote
When I’m with a friend , I’m the chatty one lol but when I’m by myself I just clam up idk I still have the wristband on so I think I might try again
SilverLengthy t1_iub9nbz wrote
How much was the wristband btw? I say go for it! I'm the same way, where if I'm with a friend or agreeing to meet someone at a bar beforehand, I'm super talkative, but the idea of approaching others just scares me to death sometimes. The more I drink, the more I open up tho
Top-Experience-8874 t1_iubc4f1 wrote
It was 20$ yeah I’m pre drinking and I’m gonna try again 🎃
Charlesinrichmond t1_iuda4xp wrote
key is just get yourself out there, but yeah, if you figure out something you like doing you are more likely to have stuff in common with the people you meet.
But you do need to get out there, no one will come to you. And it's hard out of college
Top-Experience-8874 t1_iudbjsj wrote
Yeah why was it so easy making friends at 20? Lol perhaps because more drinking was done at 20 🤣 I’m going to a paint and sip next weekend , I think it’ll be more my speed :) wish me luck hahaha
Charlesinrichmond t1_iudsffc wrote
you can do it!
It'll suck, of course, but eventually you'll get past it. Where as if you don't try it'll keep sucking. Cheery thought eh?
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