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Jacks_Cold_Sweat t1_ix8an2v wrote

Going through a break up, realizing how many people I know but how few friends I have. Thankful for the few, but damn it’s hard to move past the “stop and talk for a minute if we see each other” to actually hanging out kind of friendship.

Regardless, busting my ass trying to make myself more attractive in the future. It’s easy to be bitter and I’m trying really hard not to do that.

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Bartok_and_croutons t1_ix93f1t wrote

For the "actually hanging out" kind of friendship, I just invite people to hang out with me while I bake something. Usually, I'll make them some tea or hot chocolate and I'll just listen to them, turns out a lot of people just really need to talk about something and feel listened to.

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Jacks_Cold_Sweat t1_ixbd2jx wrote

I never thought about it until now, but I think I’m going to start asking friends to come over for coffee to my house in the morning. I love making good coffee, and it would give me a reason to not wait until the last minute to get up. Thanks!

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assaulty t1_ix95bzm wrote

People are usually very happy to receive invitations. And like stated below, it doesn't have to be anything wild or complicated.

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