Submitted by RJT_RVA t3_zw34j9 in rva

Too upset to type much, but we suddenly have to say goodbye to our cat. We are devastated. We can try and wait to bring him home tomorrow, but he may suffer more. On the other hand, we don't want him to have to pass in an unfamiliar place like the vet hospital (even though we'll be with him). Are there ANY house call vets in Richmond that are on call overnight? That would be so much more preferable.

Your thoughts and kindness in the comments are very much appreciated.

Edit: VRCC compassionately put Murr to rest last night. He likely had end stage cancer (though we'll never know for sure).We got to spend a good hour with him cuddling on one of his favorite blankets, and because of some temporary interventions, he was actually more alert and affectionate than he was when we brought him in yesterday morning. We made the decision to let him pass shortly after. The process was quick and peaceful, purring on us until the very end.

You guys have been so kind. It means more than you know.

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loloviz t1_j1slouj wrote

Wellesley animal hospital has offered this to us in the past. Not sure if it’s only something they do for existing patients, but they might be able to direct you if they can’t. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. We list our beloved cat two years ago on Xmas eve.

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wil_dogg t1_j1sobdf wrote

Linda Ryder, Companion Animal House Calls has been our vet for 5+ years.

https://www.companionanimalhousecalls.com

Unfortunately I’m not sure she is available this evening.

I will say this, I have never had a bad experience with any vet when putting down an animal, including at clinic.

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OllieGarkey t1_j1sm323 wrote

I'm so, so sorry you're going through this. Sending warm thoughts.

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ArizonaTy t1_j1sm6yo wrote

I know this feeling all too well. I am so so sorry you are going through this. Sending love your way

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Farmerjoerva t1_j1sq002 wrote

Dr scotti http://www.journeysendathome.com/

She’s sent our last two from our house and is pretty amazing for this

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shalomfromus t1_j1syucc wrote

Dr. Scotti is very compassionate. We’ve unfortunately/fortunately had her come to our home and she was wonderful.

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Lil-Byrdi t1_j1swlty wrote

100% agree. She was wonderful with my cat of 16 years this past October. ❤️

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KJ19912018 t1_j1sr54z wrote

I'm sorry this is something y'all are needing now. Lap of Love is typically open later but it looks like their vets aren't available right now. I'm not sure if it's worth calling to double check in case I'm understanding it incorrectly.

https://www.lapoflove.com/find-a-vet/Virginia/Richmond/about

Loving Kindness edit is available until the 31st but they don't open until 7:30am

https://lovingkindnessvet.com/richmond-va-pet-in-home-euthanasia/

This sucks and I'm really sorry you and your cat are having to go through this right now.

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fusion260 t1_j1sroj8 wrote

Loving Kindness appears to be available until Saturday, December 31st - Sunday, January 2nd. Sounds like OP doesn't want to wait so hopefully they'll be able to accommodate them.

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KJ19912018 t1_j1srs3u wrote

Oh you're totally right I was reading that wrong, thank you for noticing that!

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fusion260 t1_j1sx4k1 wrote

No worries! After this long weekend, I also thought it was on the verge of Dec 31st and realized we had 5 days left after I read your comment :)

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fusion260 t1_j1sri1x wrote

I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's a heartbreaking decision to make, but please know you're making the right decision.

I went through this with my dog last August and we used Loving Kindness Vet to come to the house, administer the drugs, and then take her for cremation. They were very compassionate, made sure we understood and were comfortable with what they were about to do, and gave us the time we needed to say goodbye before we called them over to get started. I'd really recommend them if they're available.

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Hangrycouchpotato t1_j1swy4l wrote

I'm so sorry that you are going through this...it's such a terrible feeling. I've had to say goodbye to many pets over the years and the clinic/animal hospital is not a bad environment to say goodbye if your precious kitty is suffering. Your kitty will not know the difference, all they know is that they are unwell. Vets are always compassionate and give you all the time you need to say goodbye before and after. I've had many offer me reassuring words when I question if I'm making the right decision or not.

Again, very sorry that you are going through this.

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jracka t1_j1sym1g wrote

I hate this for you, I just had to put my dog down recently and it was tough. It's going to be hard to find someone to come overnight, especially during the holiday season. Although a vet location might be unfamiliar, your cat will only know if you are there or not, so that might be the best option.

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TripawdCorgi t1_j1u4qiq wrote

We have used Dr Bob Magnus on short notice before, he was very kind and gentle. I'm sorry for your loss.

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what-the-what24 t1_j1sw1jl wrote

My heart breaks for you and your kitty. I hope that the other responses here will provide the resources you want and the love and support that you need.

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lose-at-a-cost t1_j1szx42 wrote

Sorry for your loss. We went though the same thing with our dog about a year ago. Any of the inhome folks listed are worth a call. All of them are super compassionate people and if they can make it happen, I’m sure they will try to accommodate.

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ifweweresharks t1_j1unjcv wrote

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. If you are interested, Fetch a Cure offers a pet loss support group. Here’s a link for the virtual option, but there’s also an in person one on January 10th.

https://fetchacure.org/events/pet-loss-support-group-2023-01-03/

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needsexyboots t1_j1uy5y6 wrote

Thank you for posting this, I know about Fetch a Cure but didn’t realize they had a pet loss support group. Have you attended before - and did you find it helpful?

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ifweweresharks t1_j1vqm9p wrote

I have not, though I have considered it. Unfortunately I’m more a tamp-your-feelings-down kind of person (working on that). I volunteer with Fetch, as my cat was a Companions in Crisis recipient a few years ago, and everyone there is wonderful. The sessions are led by a psychologist experienced in pet loss and grief.

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