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[deleted] t1_iwvv8lz wrote

i feel like being in a dependent relationship when not ready is like
buying luxury goods to compensate for lack of stability/status

ideally basic needs are met and people are fine by themselves
then be ok with unrequited love unasked favor non essential gifts etc

you could be appreciated 5 times and that one last punch that hurts you can demolish carefully built trust and just like that 'never again' box meme