This article is a very good one

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2010/08/02/letting-go-2

My father and my mother-in-law both opted for home hospice. My father had made arrangements with my brother in the years before his decline. He settled out his affairs and put properties and assets in trust. He and my mother also purchased a package from the Trident Society to take care of their remains and certain of the paperwork for us.