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Television_Wise t1_j92firc wrote

Reply to comment by Element_of_surprise in Give me all the details by Total-Article-7017

So these guys, many of whom end up being innocent normal men without any bad past, are having their photos posted without their consent? By partners they like and trust? Wow, exemplary behavior there.

I'm glad the breach of their trust and violation of their privacy is "entertaining" and "hilarious" for you though. I feel bad for any men who've had the misfortune to date any of the women from the bullying-scumbag FB group. Hopefully these men catch on to the vile nature of these women fast and get away from them. Probably why these group members stay in the dating pool long enough to "need" such a group.

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Element_of_surprise t1_j9358w0 wrote

No, they post men they encountered who wound up assaulting them, have recent criminal reports for similar behavior (assault, domestic violence, rape), or have threatened them. It’s to put out a warning knowing the male, who already posted their photos publicly on tinder or whatever dating site, might not be a safe person. There are over 15,000 women in the group. It’s not a few women who can’t catch a date.

I can’t say some women don’t misuse it, but the admins moderate the content posted. There are strict rules that get you banned such as “I hate men” or certain language.

As a person who has been assaulted more than one person from dating despite researching beforehand and even meeting them through work/school, I think it’s helpful. I disagree with it being male exclusive.

Check out “blast her bro” on fb if you need its counterpart.

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Television_Wise t1_j94alo0 wrote

Then why did you say:

>allows women to post guys they’re seeing and make sure they’re not seeing other people, not a criminal, or other craziness. I’

That's not posting known abusers/cheaters/etc. What you described there is posting a guy you're dating (who may be innocent or may not) to see if anyone has any dirt.

You were either giving misinformation in your first comment or you're giving it now.

You're contradicting yourself.

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gigermuse t1_j94rg5w wrote

Are you just worried you're posted there already or will be? Calm tf down, it's a FB page, nothing to worry about unless you have something to worry about.

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Television_Wise t1_j9hc0cf wrote

I'm a girl. Just one with moral standards, and who doesn't enjoy seeing bullying and stalking go on.

>nothing to worry about unless you have something to worry about.

Some of us are capable of giving a shit about others. I get that you wouldn't know what that's like.

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gigermuse t1_j9u1mbn wrote

Bless your heart. Crazy to think by giving a heads up on ABUSERS equates to "not giving a shit about other people" in your pretty little head. That's cute. EDIT TO ADD: a big part of the group is also blasting SA from the victim themselves to warn local ladies, but your right I would hate for a guy that R*pes girls to get bullied.... we're just big ol meanies.

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