Can't speak for the dating scene, but I grew up on the West Coast and I've enjoyed Springfield so far.

There's a lot of open minded people and cool little niche communities, great food scene, community events here and there depending on what you're into.

As far as meth heads, bigotry and religous assholes that shit exists everywhere. I experienced drug addicts growing up in Washington state that would make a Missouri meth head blush. And WAY more crazy homeless people.

There's a lot of fun to be had here, and cool cities to explore only several hours drive away in any direction. Don't believe the haters.