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drsideburns t1_jbtqf5j wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in Inner Circle Vodka Bar ramps up security after roofie allegations by [deleted]

Well I’m not trying to blame any victims, please don’t get the wrong impression. I’m just saying that there’s people who I don’t doubt were drugged, but there are people who I would be skeptical of if they made the same claim.

Again I’m not trying to say it doesn’t happen, and it didn’t happen to you or your friend.

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[deleted] OP t1_jbtrk3g wrote

That’s kind of the issue. Why be skeptical? Who does it harm to take a person at face value for something like this?

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drsideburns t1_jbttkag wrote

Couldn’t it potentially harm the people baselessly accused?

In one situation I am aware of, girl A gets blackout drunk at a friendly party and acts regrettably that night, and wants to tell others she was drugged that night. Should I believe that her friends were scummy? Or should I believe that the girl with the self admitted drinking problem maybe completely overdid it and isn’t a reliable witness?

There’s reasonable doubt for both sides of the story. I’m skeptical to believe she had been drugged.

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[deleted] OP t1_jbtvcj4 wrote

Yeah this reeks of victim shaming. This is the same line of thinking of “should I believe she got assaulted or did she just regret it the next day?” Come on bro. Character defamation to discredit someone is victim shaming.

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drsideburns t1_jbtwmdx wrote

And your posts reek of ignorance. I don’t buy your “believe ALL women” horseshit perpetual victims mentality that you are attempting to push on me. Fuck off with that immature nonsense kiddo. People lie, and I’m not going to buy into the bullshit you’re peddling.

I’m not and haven’t been victim blaming; I’m speaking on behalf of people who are attached to the real world and touch grass occasionally. Grow up kiddo.

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[deleted] OP t1_jbtxttv wrote

Your mask slipped with that second sentence. You came to a post about folks getting roofied and played devils advocate. You brought up a woman having a drinking problem to say why she didn’t get roofied.

You are and have been victim blaming. No matter how many times you call me kiddo, that won’t change. Have a wonderful day.

Edit: have a day as pleasant as you. :)

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drsideburns t1_jbu18sx wrote

I hope your day is nicer than you; nobody deserves a day that bad 😘

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